Reason to love

I believe that people love for many certain reason. Why do I believe it ? Because there are many evidence about it.

Example (Men)
"Oh, She's beautiful,very kind and rich"
"She have sweet smile with dimples on her both cheek"
"Her eyes and sexy smile makes my heart flutter"
"She's cute, sexy and have a perfect body curve"
"She's my deal type"
"She's kind, respect the elders, honest and moderate"
"She knows how to cook and hardworking"
"She's been loyal to me for years and won't leave me alone"
"She has fair skin, sexy and cute"
"She's chubby, cute and adorable"
"She's amazing and unique. She's totally different from the others"
"She has sexy lips such as Megan Fox"

And so on . . .

Example (Women)
"Oh, he's so handsome and have a sweet smile"
"He has perfect body with 6pack and ideal height such as Randy Pangalila"
"He's so handsome with sweet smile, smiley eyes, sexy lips such as James Reid"
"He's rich, handsome and loyal"
"He's clever, kind and respect people"
"He didn't smoke or drink alcohol"
"He's cute, have fair skin and tall"
"He knows how to make me happy and tale care of my heart"
"He's always stay by my side no matter what happen"

And so on . . .

There are so many reason for people to fall in love. There's nothing wrong about it. The reasons to love depend on individual preferences.

BUT,
DO WE NEED A REASON TO LOVE ?

A relationship that doesn't need much effort and the love won't faded away would be great right ?
Does that exist ?

Once again, do we need a reason to love ? As I believe that people need a reason to love, I also believe that people doesn't need any reason to love. It's just that I'm not really sure about it because it is unconvincing as there are no evidence that love doesn't need any reason. It is okay to be uncertain because we can't expect that we know everything. But, we can try to find and learn about it. Right ?

I hope that one day, I'll get the answer whether love need reason or not.

Maybe one day, I'll experience the feeling of love without reason.

ManisaMong ❤

Move on

I do agree that move on is really hard. But, what is the definition of move on ? For me, move on depend on individual perspective.

Some said, move on is all about finding and loving yourself again. Love and take care of yourself. Its all about yourself.

Some said, move on is when you are willing to go through the pain of missing him/her and stop to care about him/her.

Some also said, move on is when you can accepted the fact that he/she are not yours.

For me, move on is when you reached up one point that your tears wont fall when you think about him/her.

Move on is when you didnt felt upset and regret for things that happened, in fact you are grateful to know him/her.

Move on is when you start accepted the fact that he/she had choose other instead of you.

Move on is when you sincerely pray for he/she without thinking about things that hurt you.

Move on is when you can convince yourself that ONCE IN THE PAST he/she was one of your everything.

Last but not least, if it has come to the end, then it will be end and if it is meant to be, then it will be.

Sometimes

Sometimes you have to let go of what killing you even if it's killing you to let go. You have to kill your pain so that the pain wont kill you.

Sometimes you need to give yourself a chance to cry when you're hurt. A space to live in memories. An opportunity to shout out those pain.

Sometimes you need to rebuild your strength by yourself. All you have to do is to change your pain into power so that it wont hurt you again.

And sometimes you only have to sit back, do nothing and just follow the flow. Just let it be as it had been decided because if it is meant to be, then it will be.

ManisaMong

You

Why everything happened remind me about you ?
I just really hate it when I miss you.
I just really hate it when the love is still for you.
Because when I miss you, there's nothing I can do.
Because when the love is still for you, I still care for you.

Maybe we talked too much about yourself.
Maybe we talked about too many topic.
Maybe we talked too much about things that we wanna do.
There are too many things that remind me about you.

Seriously, I miss the feeling to care about you.
I miss the feeling to love you so much.
I miss our daily conversation.
I miss our late night call.
I miss the time we met.
I miss everything a lot.

Please know one thing.
I never gave up on you. I just learned how to stop loving you.
But its really hard because you teach me how to love you but when you left, you didnt teach me the way to stop.

ManisaMong.

People

People in and out from our life.
It seems like our life is just like a shopping complex. People come when they want and people leave when they're done.

Is it really hard to stay in someone's life? Why cant people stay when they step up onto a person's life? Why cant they just stay and never leave? It's a biggest grief for losing someone.

It's really hard when a meaningful person walk into our life just to leave. It's just the same when you start just to stop. I believe that every person came to our life by a reason whether it is a blessing or a lesson. But whatever it is, it's always hurt although it's worth.

Then I know
Most of the people only can came into our life but only several people are meant to stay in our life and heart forever.

ManisaMong ��

Bittersweet

Ofcourse there's a time I'll be defeated by feelings. And, it happening right now. I miss him. I just cant get rid of the feeling right away. Yeah, maybe for all this while I stand for my ego and hatred toward him but deep in my heart the love still exist.

The moment I start to love him is the most wonderful feeling that I ever had towards a guy. The first met with him is the moment I was closed to him. The night I confess my feelings towards him is the most memorable night for me. That time, I was so happy and it was unbelieveable.

The moment when he start to create distance between us, it's disappointed me much but I dont want gave up easily. Because I love him and I wont give up to be happy.  Then, day by day, chatting with him is a drug for me. Till then our relationship cant tell by words. It only can be felt. As I said before, sometimes I can feel his love, but sometimes I really dont.

There's one fine night when he tell me that he want me, he loves me and seems like he need me. Hardly to believe but then I decided to believe it. And because of that, Im hurt.

Yes. I give my heart to him. I give my love to him. I promise to be always by his side no matter what happen. I promise always to be with him eventhough hundreds people stay away from him. But what did he gave to me ? He gave me hope. YES. HOPES. It was the worst feeling when a person gave us hopes without commitment.

Have you ever felt yesterday someone treat you as their special one but then today they treat you like you are nothing ? Its hurt right ? Yeah, thats what I felt. And I dont see any logic reason for me to stay. If I stay, then I'll hurt deeper. If I go, I'll hurt too but its worth.

So, think wisely if you want to wait for someone. Make sure he/she worth for it. If not, just go and leave it.

ManisaMong

Motivated Thought 2

Since birth, everyone get the best from their parent. When people get older, people in and out from life. That's normal. Just think like this, 'get less then get lost'.

We might not a princess or a prince but for sure we deserve to get the best because God had planned everything for us.

Just dont stand for someone that didnt appreciate us but hold tight onto someone who never let us feel useless.

Sometimes we just need to stop doing some efforts, just relax and see what happen

ManisaMong